Ok, so here’s the problem/situation/question I was thinking about earlier today, and it just came up in my head again just as I was getting in bed:
I really want to try to pursue this girl. She’s very attractive and I want to know more about her. Here’s the context: She is ‘exclusive’ with a sort-of-friend (we aren’t close anymore) Gil. I spent some time with this girl and we talked, and it sounded like the ‘exclusive’ relationship was on the rocks, so to speak. I clearly remember her saying she was ‘bitter about the whole thing’ when Eddie, her and I were all hanging out (Eddie was in the other room). Gil is a close friend of my close friend (we grew up together) Eddie. Is it a bad idea for me to try to pursue this girl since Gil is a close friend of Eddie’s? Seems like it could be a bad idea/risky.